Informal & Professional English Greetings for Every Situation
This lesson was originally posted in February 2016.
It was updated in December 2022 with new content and a video lesson.
Have you ever heard someone you don’t know say,
- Hey, what’s up?
- Hi, how’s it going?
Perhaps it was a stranger you walked past in your neighborhood. Or someone you’ve seen at work once or twice but you don’t really know.
What exactly are they asking? Do they want to know how your day is going?
Not quite.
And is it polite or respectful to say “Hey, how’s it going” even with people you don’t know very well, like your neighbors?
Well. Sometimes.
In this Confident English lesson, you’ll learn other ways to say hello in English with greetings for professional situations, casual conversations, and encounters with strangers or people you don’t know well.
You’ll understand the nuances of age, for example greeting peers vs. someone older than you.
And you’ll l earn a common structure of English greetings – most of the time, we don’t stop with a simple hello.
Lastly, if you’re not sure what someone really wants to know when they say, “What’s up” or “How’s it going”, we’ll talk about that too. Including when someone truly wants to know how you’re doing.
English Greetings for Informal and Professional Situations — Other Ways to Say Hello
Common Structure for English Greetings
Let’s start with a structure you’re likely to hear (and use) for spoken greetings in English.
In an effort to be friendly and polite, it’s not uncommon for an English speaker to casually greet a friend, a neighbor, an acquaintance, or even a stranger with a greeting such as
- Hi, how’s it going?
- Hey, what’s up?
- Hey, how are ya?
To be clear, these are casual, friendly greetings that can be used in a variety of situations.
And they all mean one thing: hello.
These are simple, polite greetings that acknowledge someone’s presence or take the first step in starting a conversation.
In this structure, you have a single greeting word (hi/hey) + a question.
For example, How’s it going or what’s up?
However, this isn’t the same as asking: how are you?
It’s not an invitation to talk about your day, how you’re feeling, or what’s happening at work right now.
In fact, the only response expected is a similar: “Hey, how’s it going?” or “Hi. Good. You?”
In other words, you exchange one greeting with a similar greeting. No one shares specific details about how they are feeling or what is happening in their life.
What this means is two strangers might politely pass each other on the street and say:
A: Hey, what’s up?
B: Hey, how’s it going?
In this exchange, they are simply saying hello to each other.
If that’s the case, then how do you know when someone is REALLY asking: How are you?
That’s a great question. And I’ll be answering shortly but first, let’s look at other ways to say hello casually and professionally.
English Greetings for Informal Situations
Let’s start with casual greetings to use most of the time, whether you’re greeting a friend, a coworker on the elevator, a neighbor you’ve never spoken to, or a complete stranger on an early morning walk.
Because I’m an American and I currently live in the U.S., I’ll focus on greetings used in the United States.
There may be common greetings where you live that I haven’t included here.
If you’re not sure what to say, I recommend listening to others around you, particularly those who consistently speak with politeness, kindness, and warmth. Which greetings to they typically use?
This is a good way to identify the best ways to say hello to others where you live.
Now here are several you can use:
Good Morning
This is the most formal way to say hello in casual conversation but it’s also very friendly and warm. With this combination of formality and warmth, it’s perfect to use when passing by a stranger on a morning walk, greeting a neighbor, or saying hello to coworkers.
Of course, because it includes the word ‘morning’ we stop using it around noon.
Hello / Hi / Hey / Hey there
These are all common ways of saying “hello” in a casual, friendly way, and quite often, these are immediately followed by a question such as…
How’s it going? / What’s going on? / How’s everything?
These questions are typically combined with hi, hey, or hey there. For example
- Hey, how’s everything?
- Hey there. How’s it going?
- Hello. How’s it going?
When responding to these greetings, the expectation is that you use simple answers or simply respond with a similar greeting. For example
- Hi, how’s it going?
- Good, thanks. You?
- Fine thanks, you?
- Everything’s great, thanks. You?
What’s up? / What’s new?
Similar to how’s it going but more informal is what’s up or what’s new.
For example:
- Hey, what’s up?
Common responses include:
- Not much.
- Nothing.
- Hey, what’s new?
Here is an example dialogue:
A: Hey Mina, what’s up?
B: Oh, hey. Not much. How’s it going?
Yo
While not as common as hi or hey, you may occasionally hear “yo.” It is typically only used with individuals who know each other well and is more common
Howdy
“Howdy” is a regional greeting, which means it is only used in some areas of the United States.
Good to see you. / It’s been ages! (since I’ve seen you.) / Where have you been hiding? / What have you been up to?
These are common greetings when you have not seen someone you know for some time and often follow a hi or hey.
These expressions can be used as part of your greeting when you see someone unexpectedly, at a party, a family gathering, etc.
The question “where have you been hiding” invites conversation. It is a way of saying, “How have you been?” Here is an example dialogue:
A: Hey! It’s good to see you! It’s been ages! Where have you been hiding?
B: Hi Sue, what’s up? I’ve just been busy, working a lot of long hours. What about you? How have you been?
A: Everything’s good. Nothing new really.
English Greetings for Professional Situations
Let’s transition to situations in which we may need more formal or business professional language in English. Some common examples include
- Business meetings & negotiations
- At a job interview
- Communicating with high-level management
- Saying hello to the company president or CEO
- Meeting new business colleagues
- Communicating with new clients, high-level clients, angry clients
Good morning / Good afternoon / Good Evening
Good morning is the only one on this list that is commonly used in place of “hello” when greeting an individual.
To be particularly respectful, you can also include the person’s last name, for example: “Good morning, Ms Jones.” If you know someone well, you can also use their first name.
When you are greeting a group of people – for example at a meeting – you can also say something such as:
- Good morning, everyone. I hope you are doing well this morning.
In greeting an entire group, this is also when someone might use Good afternoon or Good evening.
For example, at the start of a presentation or lecture.
How do you do?
How do you do is a bit old-fashioned and not often used. In fact, I’m not sure if I’ve ever used it.
It is also quite formal and is used when meeting someone for the first time.
It’s often confused with the question “How are you?” but it isn’t a question at all. How do you do is a statement. A greeting. It’s an alternative to “I’m pleased to meet you.”
Hello / Hi
Similar to the casual greetings we discussed, we’ll often start a professional conversation with a simple hi or hello.
How have you been doing? / How have you been?
Similar to asking “how’s it going,” these questions will often be used after a hi or hello as a polite greeting.
The expectation is to receive a short, positive focused response such as:
- Great, thank you. And you?
- Very well. How are you?
- Good thanks. How about you?
When does “How are you” mean “How are you?”
With our casual and professional greetings, we’ve heard many alternatives to the question “How are you” including
- How’s it going?
- What’s new?
- What’s up?
- How have you been?
But none of them really ask, how are you? When those questions get asked in a greeting, we don’t really expect a lengthy conversation about how you’re doing.
So when does someone what a real answer? When does someone truly want to know how you are?
The secret: they will ask you twice.
Imagine you unexpectedly see a coworker at the grocery store. Here’s what that conversation might sound like:
- Your Coworker: Hey Sue! Good to see you. How’s it going?
- You: Good thanks. And you?
- Your Coworker. Everything’s fine. Just busy with the kids, of course. So how are you? It’s been a tough few weeks at work with the looming deadline, hasn’t it?
What do you notice?
In that dialogue, the coworker asked ‘how are you’ a second time, after the initial polite greeting. When that happens, someone really wants to know how you’re doing.
I’d love to hear from you! What is your favorite greeting in English?
In your English life, do you use informal or professional greetings more often? What lessons have you learned about greetings in English from your own experiences?
Please be sure to share your experiences or ask questions in the comments section below.
~Annemarie
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Hello Annmarie, I’ve got a question. My Japanese colleague told me that once I said “Good morning” to greet someone in the morning, then I couldn’t use “Good afternoon” to greet the same person later that day. I should use “Hello” or “Hi” instead. Is this correct?
Hi Calla, interesting question. I have never heard that advice before. The greetings ‘Good morning’ and ‘Good afternoon’ are perfectly appropriate at any time. They are both highly formal and polite.
Using ‘hello’ or ‘hi’ are also okay. They are less formal and they suggest a level of closeness with the other person.
Thank you so much!💛
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You’re very welcome, Margaretha.
Hi Annmarie 🙋🏻♀️ I hope you and your husband are doing good in California. I‘m still constantly learning new things with you. Very easy and useful lesson.
Thanks again!
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Hi Deny, it’s great to hear from you! I’m so glad you enjoyed this lesson. It’s surprising how much we can learn just about simple greetings.
Hi Anne!! What´s up? I found your video contents greatly informative and educational as well. I never miss any of your weekly presentations. I love the way U tell us about the latest as well as updated ways of communicating with others whoever the others are.
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Good afternoon!! However, at time to say hello to someone you do not know just to gather his/her attention, in the USA people tend to keep distance. Days after I was told that it is a culture custom and was given a pice of advice that “never greet someone from behind”, depending on where I was, I could be in trouble.
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Hi Victor, congrats on completing your police force exam! It’s totally normal to take breaks from time to time and I’m glad to have you back enjoying my lessons.
Thank you so much for this. İ praticed alot,thank you again,have a good day/night/evening/noon
İn our school,there will be a important english check up. Can İ make a greeting centence likd this?Greetings,İm glad to see you sir/ma’am.
Thank you for such an informative post. I have a question: could you greet a group of friends like Hello friends! Or it’s not common , and better to say Hey guys!
thanks
Great question, Ann. Both are perfectly appropriate.
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From my perspective, greeting goes hard for strangers because of being unaware of the native language in a certain ethnic group you are approaching but greeting senior or junior is much easy to distinguish by observing through appearance, job position, event on progress, the problem you are having to the person you are greeting.m e.g 1 you have gone the wrong way u need to ask u will use a very polite language. e.g 2 your lecturer is younger than but you will have to greet honorably .thank you
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Thank you. I am now in a position to distinguish types of greetings., because I will be teaching young learners who needs to be taught the righr thing at their age. That’s wonderful.
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I got a clear picture of how to use the greetings. Thank you very much for such a wonderful way of describing how to use the various greetings.
thank you so much, this is very helpful
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This is the most exhaustive list of English greetings I have ever found. I’m writing a report on translating English greeting into Vietnamese or vice versa so I would like to cite your work in my report. Would you mind telling me how to cite it in the refference list of my report?
I’m waiting for your answer.
Thank you a lot.
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Thank you for the comment and inquiring how to cite my work. I sincerely appreciate that and I’m thrilled to know this was helpful to you. Here is how you can site this page:
Fowler, Annemarie. “The Right Greeting for Every Situation in English.” Speak Confident English, 16 Feb. 2016, http://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/greetings-for-every-situation/.
Didn’t find the answer for the questions that burns me a lot: two-three colleagues are chatting in the hall, you are approaching them and say “Good morning!” and …. is getting no sign of response: not a glance, not a wave, not a word…. Am I right to expect at least one of them? Do I need to ignore them at the first place ? Lastly, do I ignore someone’s greeting while conversing with somebody else?
Hi Vera, Thank you for sharing your question. That is a very frustrating situation and I have to say, I’m surprised. Can I ask what country this is in? I’m completely shocked that when you say “Good morning” you don’t get a glance or any responses. In my opinion, that is very rude of the others. I’ve always believed (and taught) that when someone says hello or greets you, you always greet them back. It’s the polite thing to do. Are these people you see every day? I think the decision about what to do is up to you. You… Read more »
(Midwest American City perspective:) It could be contextual or non-verbal, or confusion, or just rudeness. If the conversation is critical (new emergency/imminent, high pressure meeting/personal correction) then, they may not spare the attention for those around them (still rude, if they’re in the hall). Probably not the case, if they’re just chatting in the hall. If they are in a conversation and you say “Good Morning” to the group, it would not be unusual for the person speaking to acknowledge the greeting non-verbally, typically by 1. Making eye contact, 2. slight smile, 3. slight lift of the chin for acknowledgement,… Read more »
Hello Alex,
Thank you for sharing these helpful insights. You’re absolutely right that there are many reasons someone might not respond to a greeting.
In the end, it sounds to me like Vera has had this situation happen many times and that’s what I find shocking. It makes me sad to think people are being rude by not responding. I agree with your conclusion when you said, “I would continue to say ‘good morning’ and not think too much of it…” It’s always best to continue being polite, even if others aren’t.
Thanks for your comments.
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